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Monika Winkelmann's avatar

I am not satisfied about the fastness of concluding: The killer is also a victim. And then the heads of the police are also victims of the chauvinist, uneducated image they attribute to these professionals.

I call a victim the person or persons or animals who were threatened, overwhelmed by force, and not only that, their life was taken without formal accuse, defender, trial. Without the possibility to call a lawyer.

What characterizes the situation is the extreme power inequality. I suppose that his way of talking to the woman was not polite but aggressive, so that she was at once on alarm. He cannot expect obedience, I find, when he is inflicting terror. A young lady who was never confronted by naked violence may react as she reacted. Not wise but naturall, insisting in being talked to in another way.

All physical, systemic and gender power was on his side. So he is fully to be made accountable for his impulsiveness (which is, we know, fostered and welcomed).

In a way, if we want to soften our hearts, all are accountable for a brutal, not really protective police system, for misogyny, and more.

Our energies, I find, should turn towards Renee, her child, her beloved ones, in solidarity. As they are the victims.

Before court, one might have wished, a deep analysis of the situation, where the officer might learn about his vulnerability. This to happen, seems, however, a Utopian wish in that authoritarian, fascist society.

By the way, shouldn't we ask ourselves, which values we want to serve? And how is our position towards power and overwhelm?

I would rather renounce to have a weapon because the one who has a, weapon, tends to use it. What about accountability?

Prayers go to both.

Natalie Niswander's avatar

I appreciate the perspective and reminder, waking up to the latest celebration of petty cruelty. The three poisons are rampant and upheld as virtue. May I not share in welcoming them. May all be free from suffering.

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